Let's get one thing out of the way, many women actually love nerds. Nerds are guys who are obsessed about certain body of knowledge. Maybe they specialize in a certain field of study and what happens is everything else basically pales in importance. This is very consequential because nine times out of ten, the first thing that they let go is social aptitude.
They simply don't know how to say hi. They don't know how to read social signals. They don't know what to say in certain moments. Accordingly, they say the wrong things at the wrong time to the wrong people. And of course, this all produces the wrong results. They become social outcasts. They're considered interpersonal lepers, and this basically puts them in a really unfortunate spot, as far as how people classify them.
And this really is too bad because a typical nerd has a lot to offer. If you need any proof of this, look at the top ten richest people on the planet and at least one of them is a nerd. And I'm of course, talking about Bill Gates. If you've ever seen pictures of him, as well as video footages of him in his younger days, you would know full well that he is a full on nerd.
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